Okay okay, I feel like I need to start this off with a disclaimer though it might not stop the automod from eating this: DirtyPenpals prohibits asking users to verify themselves for you. I'm not asking for any kind of verification from actual penpals, nor am I offering verification to people who might reply to this. What I am doing is looking for a roleplay/conversation about fictional situation where a lady (preferably played by me!) needs to provide some kind of verification of her identity to access a NSFW online community.

The scenario I'm interested in is a bit unrealistic because the characters won't be communicating exclusively online. Instead, it's a dystopian scenario where women are expected to verify themselves by meeting up with a moderator/admin IRL. And from there? Things would take a sexual turn, obviously! Depending on your preferences, I can see it going one of two ways: totally consensual or dubcon. Either the setting assumes sexual stuff as part of verification is normal and my character is fully prepared to go along with it (maybe she still sees it as an annoyance, but one she's willing to put up with)... or verification in this setting really is typically just an in-person interview and my character is surprised by the mod/admin pushing for something more personal and intimate. Perhaps a little blackmail is involved. But I don't want the scene to evolve into outright noncon.

I think there are still a lot of other levers to pull with regards to how this situation plays out. Am I verifying for a NSFW community, or is this actually the norm for anywhere on the internet now? How casual is the setting about sex, especially with strangers? Will we go all the way to sleeping with each other, or just some dubious groping? Are we meeting up in a nice coffee shop like some kind of date, or a cheap and sketchy motel? I look forward to discussing particulars like these with you in my DMs!

As for kinks, I'm receptive to a lot of stuff but there's only so many kinks you can jam into a oneshot RP. I'd like to focus on the power imbalance between my user and your mod/admin character, so there's some BDSM elements at play. There's a casual sex vibe to this idea too. Groping, rough sex, hair-pulling, and dirty talk (dirty yes, but not degrading) would all tickle my fancy too. Also, a big part of the appeal for me here is getting into our characters' heads, so it would be best if you also like to put a spotlight on inner dialogue and emotional states!

Also- I probably should have mentioned this sooner- just to be clear, other women are very much just as welcome to message me about this as men! I said [F4A] in the title and I mean it. :P