Being submissive, as a usually dominant man, can sometimes be a bit of a challenge.

Now it's not because I have any hang ups with the thought of exchanging the control and agency of dominance, far from it! I actually find myself craving the vulnerability and reactionary nature of being a submissive most days.

The main issue I find is folks taking my desire to be submissive as an invitation to degrade my masculinity, or worse yet, substitute it with over the top humiliation for the fact that such a masculine individual wants to be submissive.

While I'm sure this is the path some guys would like to go down, and no ill judgment on those dudes, it's not particularly my cup of tea. I don't want to feel humiliated and like less of a man because I want to have moments where I dont feel like this tenacious animal or an unbreakable pillar who never crumbles. Really, above all else, I just want to be rewarded for all of the moments where I am dominant, with just a small dose of being submissive, preferably in a "behind closed doors" sort of way, this being DPP and all!

After working long days in a demanding career, letting the guard down and wanting someone to take over once I get home is my perfect fantasy, hopefully with naughty twist attached to it! I want to leave my troubles at the door and let my mind go while I become someone else's joy, nothing being more important than enjoying the experience and becoming their perfect toy, satisfying that need to feel useful in a lazy way♡

I feel there's a sort of wholesome and loving nature when a normally submissive partner takes the reins of the relationship and steps into the dominant position to pleasure their partner, either as a reward of appreciation, to help ease stress during hard times, or perhaps out of a desire to spoil them!

Some ideas I've had for the sort of submission I'm looking for is:

1.) A wife rewarding her husband with a special evening after he's had to work overtime all week, appreciating that he still finds the time after getting home so late to do his part around the house, even going above and beyond when she was feeling ill.

2.) Slightly older girlfriend spoils her boyfriend with a vacation, knowing he's been desperate to go on one but not able to afford it while he's hard at work in college.

3.) It's date night, and instead of the man telling his partner to wear something proactive, it's her turn to tell him how to dress, even after the clothes come off.

4.) Step mom shows her son just how much she appreciates him stepping up to be the man of the house while his dad's out of the country for work.

5.) Professor has an interesting reward system for her favorite student afters he works with her in tutoring all semester to turn hus grades around

6.) Complete stranger can't help but reach out online to the random man who paid for her lunch after she left her wallet at the office. Good thing he left his business card!

7.) Cheerleader gets paired with ace student for a project and is surprised to find that he's happy to do all the work, understanding she's got a busy schedule. No one's ever been this nice to her, even going as far as offering to tutor!

8.) Beach bum girly always appreciates her favorite lifeguard giving her water on the hotter days in summer.

If any of those roles sound interesting, please don't hesitate the reach out! Despite all the talk of wanting someone else to take over the heavy lifting, I assure you I always put effort into keeping roleplays fresh, fun, and well put together!

Have your own ideas? Fantastic! I'd love to hear them!

Maybe you just want to tall about the concept in general? Fine by me too!

Hope to see you soon~