I really like it if a guy ejaculates fast. It's manly, a guy should not take forever. Biologicially and evolutionary a guy should be quick. Like most animals, men naturally don't need so much time, everything else is learned behavior. Modern society has normalised lasting forever, that is the standard for many now, but it's not the natural order: finishing quickly is normal, having high "stamina" and lasting for a long while is not. Because of that there are a lot of wrong expectations surrounding sex.

Biologically the primary function of sex is to procreate so mating is supposed to be quick and efficient. The ejaculation is the goal so why postphone that. But of course in humans that is far from the only function of sex. The second function is pleasure but then again: why postphone the pleasure in which the orgasm is again the goal. The third function is social and I think that while men are usually more focussed on the pleasure part, women are usually more focussed on the social function.

I was lucky in that except one all of my (7) exes usually didn't need too much time. I have heared from a few that it feels more sensative with me. I like that thought, it makes me feel good about myself, it flatters me. It made me kinda lazy in bed but I like that I can be, that he doesn't need anything special to get him there. I don't see it as premature ejaculation since that implies that he is too quick. I don't think there is anything like too quick. The quicker he is, the better it is.

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