Hi! I have had sex with seven guys in my life and except one they all were commonly done within a few minutes, with one guy regularly within half a minute. I'm proud of that, I'd like to think that is because of me. I don't think I'm good at sex, far from it even as I'm quite lazy, but I've heard from guys that it feels more sensative with me than with other women. I like that idea, it flatters me.

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I can't feel much myself during sex and it's rare for me to get really aroused. I can't get an orgasm through anything a guy does and untill a few years ago I thought I couldn't cum at all. It was only when I got a powerfull enough vibrator that I managed to get over the barrier and since then I masturbate when I need to get off. But I still like sex. It's just that I like it for his reaction, for his need for me.

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I only have sex in relationships and I think that having sex regularly is good to keep your relationship in order. You don't want anyone to develop frustrations. On average guys have the need for an orgasm more often than women and with me that is even more so. I think it's better to have sex in a relationship than that he jerks off to other women (watching porn) so I rarely deny him. I don't see it as free use or anything like that as it always happens in a way that suits me, but I think it also helps that since he is fast it's easier to have sex when you know it will be over quick. It is still nice to have that moment together, to feel connected and so close to each other.

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So I like to view sex in a more practical or pragmatic way. I think some would consider it unhealthy but I think it's healthier than a relationship in which the guy is more focused on other women sexually than his own. Anyway, I like to talk about it, if you'd like that too, just send me a chat request in either English or Dutch.

About me: I'm a 24 year old girl from the Netherlands. I'm explicitly looking for a conversation, not for sexting or roleplaying. Just talking about sex. For me it's more about curiosity than arousal (I don't mind if that's different for you as long as you respect that it's different for me). I have a more elaborate profile on DPP profiles: https://www.reddit.com/r/DPPprofiles/comments/1bph1o9/dutch\_24f\_f4m\_i\_like\_conversations\_about\_a\_simple/