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Daddy Talk
Looking to converse long-term with a daddy type. What's a daddy type? I'm glad you asked! Going by my own description here: a daddy type is a man that is usually 35 or older, he's well-established in his life with a rewarding career and hobbies, has great relationships with his friends and families, takes care of himself mentally and physically, is responsible, mature and caring to hold conversations that are engaging, are not limited to sexual discussions and sexual discussions are always treated with high regard for his conversation partner so both parties can enjoy what discussions take place, as opposed to it being a one-sided, inequally pleasurable conversation. As for being married, partnered or having children, that does not dictate or indicate a man of daddy status. You can have all or some of those aspects in your life, but if you can't engage respectfully with a stranger, sexual or platonic conversations, then it means nothing.
If you're looking for a penpal to discuss sexual and non-sedual topics throughout the week with, then you're in luck. I work full-time hours, stressful and draining so our conversations would be stress-relieving, not inducing. It's a written exchange, the only changes we're bringing into each other's lives will be our libido and laundry. I enjoy intelligence, the arts and drinking. Sexually, I get frustrated occassionally and will want to top a man. Maybe fuck him, or take his cock when and how I want it. It's not for his pleasure, just mine. I'm atypical so I understand it's not every guy's kink, I ask that you respect it even though you wouldn't like to be on the receiving end. Porn that I like to watch and erotica that I like to read are age gaps, rimming, anal, watersports, gay sex, solo male masturbation with toys, and that's all I can remember right now.
Bimbo Talk
This really doesn't seem to interest men but I'll mention it anyway. A couple keywords that come to mind are surgery, trophy wife and pink. Everyone has their own interpretation of a bimbo. To me, a bimbo isn't a sex-crazed woman. Rather, a woman that exudes elegance with her sex appeal. It falls in line with the trophy wife lifestyle. A woman taking care of herself to present a perfect and desirable image that satisfies and inspires envy in anyone that looks upon her. For this purpose, I prefer the clean and natural route. I'm not a fan of insane or unrealistic proportions for myself. However, I love surgery marks, the journey and healing process on other women! One day, I'd like to have a bimbo doll with my partner if they were interested in it. No one's making bimbo dolls anymore, it's kind of boring. It's great that women are able to achieve such results themselves and it's empowering that they are sexualizing themselves without guidance but idk I just feel like it takes away from the process. I grew up at the tail end of the dissolution of the Playboy Club so I guess my expectations don't line up with reality. Honestly, if you'd like to have an in-depth discussion about these things, that'd be cool too.
For myself, I've managed to restrict my eating. I've never been much into fast food, ordering in or eating out. I've probably had fast food two times last year. Ordering in or eating out, no more than three times. I'm used to cooking, it's comfortable and convenient for me. I don't have snack foods often either but a habit of eating candy when I'm stressed or too tired to cook. I don't eat dinner, I'm comfortably down to two meals a day for about three months, give or take a few days. I eat a quick breakfast, I'm sure it's no more than two hundred calories. Lunch is my fuel for the day, honestly. It's whatever I cooked, latest was ramen. Not amazing but something quick and simple to eat at work. I feel like I unintentionally started intermittent fasting? Weight loss isn't my goal, I'm more impressed with my ability to ignore hunger and get through the day without eating much. Masturbating, whether I do a lot or a little, doesn't affect me. It doesn't feel that good that witholding or over-indulging will make me any hornier or receptive, worth mentioning.
If you're interested, send the topic as your subject and PM me.
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