Private messages. No chat,

Women

Seeking a dirty penpal that I can discuss anything with. I like who I like so women and men are fair game. I am actually addicted to older men, to the point that I experience serious withdrawal symptoms if I stop. I can manage a few days before I come crawling back; you can never have too much of a good thing. I do try with guys my age but, early twenties and small town life is not conducive to dating. In general, I feel rather disconnected from most women because of this. I had an incredible friend that can relate so we are an island of two, lonely together haha. Anyways, the interest I do have in guys my age begins at them manhandling and ends at me pegging or dominating them. I also want to dominate older men, so that is a rare interest I find among women. Worst part of being a switch this time is that traditional dating and relationships are a thing of the past :(. I still want to be treated like a lady, have doors held, plans made for me and follow his lead. There is no concept of romance anymore, I guarantee a man's idea of a trophy wife now would be some porn category. Maybe you can relate to this struggle? Or if you are sexually open and have a thing for women, we can talk about that. I fantasize about being under the heel of an older woman, not literally but also literally. An Anna Wintour type: classy, elegant, experienced in life and her craft. As her pupil, she would relentlessly criticize and discipline me. The model fantasy can be fun, even darker if you wonder why older women with money take prodigies under their wing. Experiencing those types of women at work is rare but fun because they really exist, they are not just a fantasy at that point. It is fun to imagine what their life is like while I cater to their professional needs. It is a form of service but far from actual subjugation or ownership. I doubt they think about me after they leave but I think about them.

Men

Contrary to my previous postings, I am looking for someone that gets it. You understand my desire for older men, how their confidence, experience and sensuality differs from their counterparts. As a dominant or switch yourself, you understand having stressful workdays and how much you need someone that understands how that affects you. Certain scenarios can brew your need for control throughout the day and how you exact that upon your partner. Other days, you lack the energy and desire to commit to fulfill that role. I need that understanding, I am not here to fulfill your dominant woman fantasy on a whim or be your first experience. It comes and goes freely, it takes effort and the onus is on the sub anyway. A Dom does not work for you. I want to be here for you as a fellow Dom or switch, to fill the gaps to balance each other out. It would be nice to have dirty and clean discussions, listen to each other's sexual frustrations.