Earlier today, I was talking to a women about her struggling sex life with her husband. She had been with him for 5 years and in all that time she had never felt truly satisfied. In her words, "it is like he is afraid of me. Like he doesn't want to hurt me or cross any lines." I asked her for more details, and she confided in me.

She said that her ex-boyfriend in college was completely different. He took what he wanted from her and never asked. He would spank her, choke her, fuck her hard and do whatever he wanted. He was rough and dangerous, and she felt alive with him. She always found herself craving him even years after they broke up.

Her current husband just doesn't measure up. He is too polite and careful with her. He seems afraid to cross any lines. As a result, she has taken to masturbating in the bathroom after he falls asleep just to feel some kind of release.

When I asked her what she would do if he really took her roughly and without asking, she replied, " I just don't see him that way. If he tried to take me like that, I don't know if I could go through with it. I love him, but I guess I don't think I would see him that way"

It makes me wonder how many of my female friends crave something similar. Do they go home at night and play with themselves, dreaming of being taken roughly and without permission? Do they fantasize about a man choking and spanking them, bringing them to tears while he fucks them hard?

How many women out there are unsatisfied with their current sex lives and longing for a man that can push them over the edge, forcing them to truly let go? A man who can make them do whatever he wants, even things that they may not have done before.

I want to have a conversation with you if this is you. If you spend your evenings dreaming of a man who can make you feel like you are his property, his toy to use and abuse.

Maybe you need to talk about it. I'm here to listen. Tell me what you imagine when you close your eyes at night.

What did your ex-boyfriend do to you that made you feel alive? How did he fuck you? Did he have a big cock? Did he make you gag and choke on it? How did he spank you? Did he make you yelp and cry? Did he leave bruises on your ass that you had to cover up the next day?

How did he fuck your pussy? Did he grab your hips and thrust deep inside you? Did he hit that spot that made you squirt all over the bed? Did he spank your clit? Did he slap it until you had the most intense orgasm you had ever had?

What did it feel like when he chocked you? When you couldn't breathe and all you could focus on was his hands around your throat? And when he came, did he cum all over you? Did he shoot his load all over your face and tits, claiming you as his?

I'm also open to roleplay. Tell me your dirtiest secrets. Have you fantasized about being forced to strip for your boss? What about being taken by multiple men at once? Or maybe you are into more taboo subjects. Would you like to cuck your boyfriend, watching him get humiliated as another man fucks you? Anything that involves you getting taken like you want.