This idea is based on some real life events but with embellishments.

Alisa befriended me from the first time we met at work. She was a few years older than me and showed me the ropes. She was always nice to me and helped in both at work and outside. We became close friends even though we have very different personality. Or maybe because of it.

Let me explain. She is social, extrovert, and loved to attract attention - and she always got it. I am on the other hand is quiet, keep it to myself, and feel more at ease with small group with selected friends. I always had friends like her. What I lacked in social skill, I made up for being a good friend: loyal, will do anything to help a friend, and mostly free to join in if they need me to go for a dinner to someone to listen to when they are having some problem and need to vent.

But I felt Alisa really cared about me. She was interested in my life and always wanted to know how I am doing and help me in anyway she can. That included inviting me for parties she threw at her place or she was invited to. She always pushed aside all my initial reluctant and excuses.

"You are coming and that is final," she would say ending the discussion.

That is how I got to meet some of her special friends: men much older than us and hard to pin point the exact relation. But overtime I got the idea. She would often tell me that given the sorry state of my personal life, I should put more effort to meet more men. She even offer to help and introduce to her friends. But I was too scared to even think about it.

One Friday evening before a long weekend, she asked me what I was doing. I knew she had a plan with her special friend. So I tired to come up with some plan to assure her that she need not worry. But she saw though me and told me she would like me join her for the weekend.

"What about your friend?" I pointed out.

"He is the one who asked me to ask you," she said with a laugh.

I dismissed her with a wave of my hand.

"No, really. He has been talking about you for a while. I was not sure how you would feel. But if you..."

"You must be joking," I interrupted her before she says something too explicit.

She stopped. We kept quiet as we focused on our work.

A few mins later, she started: "At least think about it. You know it will be just between us. No one will ever know."

I did not respond. She continued:

"You just come and see. It will be casual and friendly. No pressure. It will be fun."

"For who?"

"For all of us. Really. Just try it once. Please!"

"No way," I wanted to make it clear.

"I am not asking you to decide," she said with a smile, "Just think about it. We have time."

"ok," I wanted to end the topic.

That is how it all started.

I am looking men to play the older special friend of Alisa. I am flexible with the details. I want to hear your ideas and share mine and make sure it works for both.

I am 32f single and from Cali and new to this subreddit. Looking for getting to know each other a bit and our preferences an building an engaging and interesting story. Prefer older men in my time zone (PST) who enjoys conversation and written words.

I prefer mutual sharing and I am open to hear your ideas and thoughts.