As a gay man, giving and receiving oral sex has always been a very important part of my sex. While it was average at best when I had my first time, I quickly got better and learned how to give my partners even more pleasure. At some point, I even did actively practice my game using multiple toys to enhance the endurance and to get better control of that gag reflex.

Since it’s a highly individual thing, I was wondering on what different guys opinions are on what makes a blowjob a great one. What do you think, it’s important and most pleasurable? How would you describe the perfect blowjob?

In my experience, there are some things, that most men liked very much but minor tweaks can make a huge difference.

This is, how I would describe the perfect head from my experiences:

• Start slowly and gently and gradually increase the intensity
• Really take time for it, so that the partner can fully enjoy it
• It’s never about to get him shoot quickly but rather to give him the most pleasure possible
• Hands on the balls but not on the penis. (It’s a bj, not a hj!)
• No interruptions, he should never fully leave the mouth from the beginning to the end
• Alternating between normal sucking and deep throat
• Eye contact whenever possible (especially while he cums)
• Enthusiasm and showing him, that I really love it
• Increase and decrease the intensity, when he’s close. Playing with the level of arousal and delaying the climax a while
• Letting him unload into the mouth, lips wrapped around and gently suck the tip when he cums.
• Never remove the mouth before he’s finished and starts to become soft again
• Showing the load, play with it, then swallow and smile

What is your opinion? Are there things, you would see totally different? Would you like to chat about the fine art of sucking a cock?

It’s not a traditional RP but rather something, I would love to exchange and learn different perspectives.

If you’re interested, feel free to contact me 😊