This is one that has been stuck in my mind forever. Since a young age when "losing to a girl" in any athletic activity would be laughed at (by a closeminded society) my brain has been like... you know, actually, that sounds interesting.

There's a lot of niche porn about headscissors and yada yada that feels awkward and forced. It's not enough for me, and I have been able to have some authentic and fun experiences in life that I feel like discussing.

This may not be "gentle" enough for some here, but I like the feeling of being able to struggle and yet be genuinely immobilized by women (though it can still be playful rather than mean). The major hurdle being that I'm tall and while hardly an athlete, still stronger than the women I've dated. There are obviously plenty that could kick my ass, but they aren't dating me (yet? Lol)

So I have kinda gone to some lengths to recreate these feelings of being overpowered in a few specific ways that women who were open to it have tried with me:

• Letting myself be pinned on the bottom bunk of a dorm room where she had leverage using the frame of the top bunk to prevent being dislodged. This was pretty effective and fun. Also the same idea in the back of a sedan lol.

  • Tying up one hand. This prevents me from standing in a headscissor, which is the usual way I can get free as a big guy. Wrapping a blanket around my legs or doing it on a couch where standing is tough (with something to block us from rolling off... Like another couch lol) has also worked.
  • Low ceiling. Basically the same idea.
  • Actual jiu jitsu submissions that work just fine on larger people (safety recommended here)

It feels like there's not much chatter in this area and the porn is just soooooo meh.

Combine this with a little taunting and a nice facesitting finish or something and I'm in heaven.

Thoughts?