Guys are intimidated by me, it’s as simple as that. I work out a good bit so I have some muscle to me (I’m still super feminine, don’t you worry) and I’m very regimented and strict with my diet and schedule. Seems most guys nowadays just can’t handle that. Dating has been tough to say the least. The only guys who understand my lifestyle are in the same boat as me and we don’t mix too well. I get how I can come off a bit bitchy (resting bitch face perhaps) but I am genuinely a sweetheart and do love people. The other issue is sex…I’m not exactly your gentle pillow princess type gal, could be a bit of the testosterone from working out so much but “making love” doesn’t really do it for me…I need more if you know what I mean…

And that brings me to my post, I’m looking for an older, dominant, black man who is…blessed…and not afraid to talk to a girl like me. Now even though I know what I want you aren’t going to be able to just tell me what to do, no. I may know what I want but I’m not changing who I am just to please you. You have to earn it. I understand that might not vibe with a majority of people on here and I’m ok with that bc all it takes is one who is up for the challenge and we will both have a great time.

I’m also very open to chatting with girls, although I am straight I do appreciate the female body and don’t mind talking to subs or doms or anything in between if you are a cute fun girl around my age!

Obviously I will be playing as myself and this is a mix of scene/chat so not really sure where to start but yeah I want it to feel like a RL interaction so let’s just start as if we are chatting online :p kinks and limits will not be discussed as it really depends on the person and I don’t want to pigeon hole myself down one path.

So if I haven’t scared you off please come say hi! Include your age in the first message and please no cuck boys or sub boys. I love y’all but not my style!