We’ve been dating for just over two months now but because of our deep connection, it feels like far longer. We intentionally took things slowly to start with so that we could get a good handle of each other before we dove in too deep. To say that we are madly in love would be an understatement. We’ve done the typical things like meeting the parents and introducing each other to our friends. Because we both love each other’s company, there was never a huge push to be intimate with one another. It’s started to pick up in the last few weeks, but I would still say that we are fairly fresh to each other in a sexual sense.

But the connection we have has made us feel comfortable with discussing all sorts of things. You know that I won’t judge you and vice versa. We are confident in our relationship to the point that both of us feel perfectly fine telling each other exactly how we feel…..

….and you want me to know that you are a submissive at heart. A boyfriend in your past had helped you explore your submissive desires and you absolutely adored it. Granted, he might have been an asshole 99% of the time, but you couldn’t help but think back on those experiences fondly. You learned your lesson about dating a guy like him and it’s safe to say that me and your ex-boyfriend are very different people. While he was aggressive and a “man’s man”, I’m much more thoughtful and intellectual.

Which is why you want to submit to me. In the two months since we started seeing each other, you’ve seen the maturity in me that makes you feel like I would a responsible, caring dominant. Even if it won’t necessarily come naturally to me, deep down you know that I have the creativity and intellect to be a unique dominant. Who knows, maybe our experimentations with dominance and submission will awaken something deep within me?

(As the title suggests, I am also open to playing the opposite where I encourage my sweet girlfriend to dominate me. It pays to be a switch, I guess. Also, please note that I'm only interested in longer term writing exchanges. Life will always come first, but I'm not looking for a "one night stand". Please message me explaining why you liked this post and we can go from there.)