Just looking for a guy (preferably someone who has experience being a “bull” when it comes to cucking I guess) to share my story with and chat about it.

Some background for the story:

My ex and I met when we were both at a small program in a large university. We started dating but in order to try to avoid any potential gossip we decided we wouldn’t really tell people for a while.

One morning, about a month or two into our relationship we were hanging out with a mutual female friend. While hanging out my gf mentions that she just got a message from a guy in one of her school clubs asking her to get coffee.

She starts talking with our friend about whether she should go. Our friend doesn’t know we are dating so she starts teasing her telling her she needs to go because she is typically into the kind of guy that sent her the message and that they might end up hooking up.

At that point I’m just there not able to say anything (because our friend didn’t know we were dating yet) just wondering like why my gf is even considering this. Whenever I asked women out previously if they had a bf they would immediately decline.

Ultimately my gf decides she will go meet with him for coffee. She heads back to her own apartment with me to get ready.

While there I let her know that this whole thing is making me uncomfortable because to me it clearly seems like a date.

She is understanding and apologizes. She claims she thought he was just being friendly and she wants to make new friends at the school outside of our small program.

Eventually instead of calling it off she suggests I and our mutual friend go with her so the guy can’t possibly think it’s a date. I don’t know why but I end up agreeing and we all go to meet this guy.

That is pretty much how the story begins and things would start to develop from there and eventually the thoughts (whether warranted or not) started unraveling in my mind.

Feel free to message me if you would like to chat about this!