I never thought of myself as being dominant. It never crossed my mind. In my eyes, I didn't have the personality or appearance to be dominant. You know how it is. Pop culture has taught us that dominant men are cut from the Christian Grey mold. You need to be tall, strong, and preferably wearing a suit. There was no way that a small, nerdy guy who only recently lost his virginity could be dominant, right?

Tonight, I want to pull you into my world by telling you the real story of how I discovered my dominant side. This is a story of my sexual exploration and my willingness to shake off society's expectations and my own insecurities. This is a story of how I went from a virgin to a "Master" in just under two months time.

If you have been a dominant or a submissive before, I would love to compare and contrast our first times. I'd love to see what similarities we share while also taking note of the differences in our experiences. I will note beforehand that my experience is somewhat usual, although the backgrounds of both my (ex) partner and I make the story even hotter from my perspective.

Most importantly though, I want to take you inside my mind. My mind is a creative but layered place so you may be surprised at some of the contradictions that I hold within me. Nevertheless, if you are a fan of chatting about D/s dynamics, sexual exploration, or just sex in general, please reach out. I am home sick with Covid today and I have nothing better to do than to relive an exciting time in my life that forever changed my outlook on kink and sex.