I strongly believe that our present sexuality is the combination of our past experiences and a our social conditioning. Each of us have a unique "fingerprint" of turns on which is a reflection of our own experiences. I am endlessly fascinated by the kinks of others and how they came about. I am writing this post in search of a long-term dirty pen pal that is willing to exchange "letters" regarding our unique sexual desires and experiences.

I am a naturally creative person that enjoys coming up with fun and fresh ways to get to the heart of our unique sexual desires. One such option, as the title suggests, starts with a naughty version of two truths, one line. This game is not just a conversation starter. It actively makes our partner guess things about us based on what society would tell us is most likely to be true or false. If this particular opening interests you, have a guess at the three "facts" about me below. One of them will be false and when you make your guess, try to explain why you think that particular fact is false.

- My college (uni, for the Brits in the audience) teaching assistant once sent me nudes.

- My first sexual partner was over ten years older than me.

- I was a virgin through college/university.

Another creative way to get to the "fingerprint" of our sexuality revolves around pop culture. I would hazard a bet that every one of us has some piece of pop culture that has inspired our sexual desires to this day. It could be a book, a steamy scene in a movie, a music video, or even an advertisement. What was that piece of pop culture for you and how do you think it has influenced you to this day? I'm very fascinated with how society influences our sexual desires and this is a good way to explore that.

I hope I have provided some good conversation starters for our dirty pen pal friendship. I am open to people of all genders and orientations. I personally define myself as a white, straight to bicurious, cisgender male but I am happy to write with anybody. So long as you have a willingness to chat about the topics explored above, please send me a message!