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I've always been a submissive girl. In the past few years however, I've realized I enjoy taking things a little further than just submission. Something that's not dirtier than outright submission but more depraved. My username is a great hint. For me, there's something incredibly attractive about being called a simp for a Dominant female. Especially if this girl was somebody I knew casually already. A friend, maybe a best friend or even a direct family member. A relationship where we're familiar with each other's personalities, have a social history and could blur the lines between just joking around and being serious. When a line could be interpreted as either funny teasing or a legitimate insult to be offended by, that's banter I really enjoy.
From my viewpoint, being called a simp can be either a term of endearment or a humiliating insult. It really depends on the context of the dialogue and what the Dominant's feeling. There's something special about simping for a special lady. At the same time, there's something extra humiliating about simping for somebody rather than just outright submission. While simps are obviously submissive, I feel like it's a completely different brand of submission that's inherently more humiliating. While it has many aspects of a D/S relationship, it's fundamentally different. I think one notable way is this relationship is usually more imbalanced than a traditional D/S relationship.
To be clear, I enjoy a 'simp' relationship that begins from a relationship already in place. Friends, roommates, family members, something along those lines. Simping for a celebrity, a twitch streamer, somebody on twitter, that isn't appealing to me in any way. Not in real life or in fantasy. It's much more appealing as a submissive to be used or taken advantage of from somebody that shouldn't be using me rather than a stranger.
I'm not looking to roleplay today. I'm looking to have a conversation with another female. Preferably a female with similar thoughts or likes as I do on this subject. We could talk about simping or submission in general, related kinks, experiences or fantasies we have, anything that relates to this subject is okay with me. Talking to a Dominant that especially wants to have a female like myself serving her would be really nice.
While I'm looking to talk primarily, I'm interested in long term exchanges and branching out our penpal relationship inevitably. As long as this post is up I'm looking for a partner.
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