Good evening and Happy New Year, r/dirtypeepals! I am a 26 year old male dom from NH experienced in piss play and have been a part of the fetish community for about 5 years now. I am middle eastern, athletic, and a little over 6 ft. I was introduced to my piss kink and giving bladder control by an ex who enjoyed holding and teasing her bladder, piss play during sex, and wetting herself on occasion. I also was lucky enough to accompany her for a few public wettings, the most daring of which was on a drunken night out in front of some of her friends. Since she and I have split, I have had less frequent exposure to this kind of fun irl, however I have become even more experienced in piss play specifically from giving bladder control sessions both online and twice irl. I also have embarked in mixing piss play into BDSM, and having sex with a woman when she has a full bladder.

I am currently looking for an ongoing chat / connection with a female (preferably in the seacoast NH / MA area but not required) who is interested in having her bladder or bathroom use controlled and experienced in or interested in exploring piss play, wetting herself, etc. I'd really enjoy chatting about this fetish, what introduced you to it, why you enjoy it, personal experiences with it, fantasies and more. It is also very important to keep bladder and kidney health in mind, so I'm not actually looking to push anyone to a limit of uncomfortability or pain. Wouldn't want to cause any infections or damage just for sexual gratification, so let's keep it safe there. If your fetish extends beyond piss play and encompasses BDSM, ABDL, scat, etc. feel free to share that as well. Lastly, I'd also be more than open to chatting about things beyond fetish if that is of interest.

I understand that we all have busy lives and different schedules that can be hard to navigate, so I wouldn't expect constant interaction, just something semi-consistent. I have a busy life and am not in fetish mode 24/7, so I totally understand. I also realize not everyone is comfortable sharing pictures so that wouldn't be required as well, though I would enjoy seeing pictures or videos of holds and wettings as I feel that just enhances the experience even more. I'm not opposed to having fun irl if the connection allows for it, but would definitely need to confirm there's no cat fishing, establish boundaries, etc.

If any of this sounds of interest to you and you'd like to connect, feel free to reach out ASAP!