Have you been browsing the dark, sexy underbelly of Reddit; all the saucy stories, the fascinating kinks, the gifs you can't keep your eyes off?

Wondering if it could be you posting the next story, image, or gif? But lacking the nerves, the experience, but most importantly a partner-in-crime to experiment?

I've been thinking the same. Don't get me wrong - I've tried a few kinks and ticked some stuff off the bucket list already (tip: ask me about them in your opening message! It'll be a good ice breaker). Not all of them I want to do again, but I'm glad I tried them at least once.

I'd like to find a FWB where we can freely discuss our sexual curiosities, and see if we can help each other make each others' fantasies happen. It can be tame like deepthroating, squirting, or roleplaying. Or the usual stuff like ropes, anal play, BDSM. Or going down the deep dark depths of what we've discovered on Reddit...

Safety and trust are important to me, especially so if we are to become "sexcapades" FWB partners to each other. So I do expect us to make sure we have chemistry first, find out more about each other, and build that trust and safety bond.

I'll share a bit about me to get started, but happy to spend time texting/chatting and answering more questions!

I'm 35, and split my time between Manchester and London (work thing). East Asian ethnicity, short black hair, no facial hair. I'm 5'8" (168cm) and slim built. I have well defined muscles from working out, but not muscular/ripped. My friends would describe me as being street smart, a dry sense of humour, a good listener, and caring. You'll have to tease out my weaknesses when you chat to me :) I'm an occasional drinker, non-smoker, drug-free, and always been disease free. I can host in central Manchester.

I'm an office professional, have worked in a variety of large companies to start-ups. I'm fairly senior in my career, so I am looking for a FWB partner that is like me and can keep discretion of this part of our personal lives from our professional lives. I travel often for work, so some weeks I won't be able to play, but I should be free at least a few times a month.

I'm looking for someone I can build that deep trust to explore new fantasies for the first time; as I will be to you when you're exploring yours.

Age doesn't really matter - I've been with partners older or younger, I think what's more important is seeing if we have similar shared tastes in sex, if we have chemistry and get along, and if we are both good souls. Stuff that you can't tell from looking at someone or their age; only through chatting and getting to know them better.

Are you ready to stop lurking on NSFW Reddit, and start living your new sex life? Get in touch and lets see where this goes!

This is me on holiday in Thailand. Private plunge pool in a 5 star villa, overlooking the ocean. Looking for someone who loves to travel too and could join me on my travels one day!