I’m hoping to strike up a friendship which features elements of femdom with a dominant woman. I’m interested in a platonic dynamic which would mutually satisfy certain power exchange needs while remaining mostly non-sexual. I’m looking for somebody who enjoys control and loves when their preferences are prioritised. Someone who thrives on being the decision-maker and wouldn’t think twice about imposing their will on a willing friend.

In return you can expect a friend who will gladly submit to your control and prioritise your desires. Who will actively seek to be of service to you, will strive to stay in your good graces and will value your feedback on how to do better.

I’m (mostly - think 95%) gay and my dating history is exclusively with guys. However my experience of subbing with men has been predominantly physical and hasn’t really managed to scratch my itch for submission outside of the bedroom. Hence I’m quite eager to befriend someone who would value the mental/social aspect of D/s first and foremost. This isn’t to say that I wouldn’t be willing to fulfil some of your physical needs, should you want that kind of service - e.g. my full body massages have received some pretty glowing reviews in the past - but that shouldn’t be the bread and butter of the dynamic.

Naturally the exact shape of this dynamic will hinge on you. Your lifestyle, hobbies, calendar and preferences will hugely impact what our friendship looks like. However please keep in mind that I’m seeking someone who has the availability to spend time together at least every now and then, the more the better, and who can do so in person most of the time.

So to make this work, I’d ask that you live in London or nearby, and are also interested in an in-person dynamic. I’d also prefer someone who isn’t hugely younger or older - mid 20s to mid 30s is ideal.

By way of a brief description, I’m 30, male, white, 5’10, with brown hair and an average build. I live in SW London, work in central and will happily travel around the city to reach you. I love movies and musicals, video and board games, all manner of quiz shows, exploring London/Europe/the world, and drinking nice coffees/fancy cocktails along the way.

If this post has struck your interest or you want to know more, please drop me a message using the chat function. I’m really not one to be bossy, but to ensure we’re on the same page please can you include a reasonably detailed introduction about yourself and what you’re looking for.