I've flitted back and forth over several years (which places me in the category of A Switch). Some have managed to flick me (intentionally) but none recently.

So I have found myself looking for a malleable, compliant, GENUINE sub. Sadly, too often people want to waste other people's time, thus making it difficult to become invested in a conversation. I could provide numerous examples of situations you might find yourself in, but will be quite limited in this post.

You must be willing to travel, ideally single, available fortnightly or more frequently when possible, so if you happen to live in South Essex/East London, we'd be far enough away for discretion but close enough for convenience.

You should be comfortable dressing as instructed or at least wish to become so, provided with a wardrobe that would become yours if needed. The same should be said of your eagerness to perform/entertainment as well as submission to have your ankles and wrists restrained on a bed. This may be with you dressed if something provided for you to wear and considered disposable, to be wore again, or simply naked. With the latter, you may be massaged with oil or explored by my lips and tongue (and different outfits can be explored together before spending such time together).

You will always be treated with respect however. Safe words will be part of this relationship, but so will conversations, time for us to discuss anything you wish to discuss and dependent upon how long we spend together, meals, lounging, cuddling; a variation on FWB.

So, if you're available before Christmas/the holiday break, I'd like to meet for a drink after some conversing and proof we are who we say we are, then arranging to spend time together over the remainder of the year and hopefully New Year's too.

If you've read this far, please reply with a description of you (more than just your age) in as much detail as I provide and the name of one of your favourite music artists/bands.

Me: 45, white, 5'10" tall, black hair, greying/trimmed beard, brown eyes, single, city professional (London), friendly and discreet.