Are you on your summer break? Are you exploring your submissive side? You looking for a D/s relationship?

You may be new or have already dipped your toe in the dynamic and now you want more, you want to go deeper? But in order for you to do this you need a patient and considerate Dom who will help you tap into your submissive side not only from a kink side but understand the deeper psychological aspects of bdsm and D/s.

You have a burning desire to be trained, to submit, to be cared for, to be praised, and to be owned. You are looking for your Daddy Dom you can be exclusive with to build something of an emotional connection over summer and beyond.

You want to feel special, you crave love, being cared for, praise but need a firm word/ boundary. This is becoming more than a kink for you as you have tried vanilla and its just frankly boring! My offer to you is come explore your full submissive side with me. I will hold you through this process so you find your real submissive self. You have questions? You may be married or single it doesn't matter as I will hold you and help you descover more of who you are.

I live in Hampshire, England looking for an online arrangement originally with a view to meet in person if you live in SE England as the relationship dynamic develops.

To be clear, I am a Shrek (well I am a experienced good looking Shrek in my delusional mind), I am a 54 year old gentlemen, who is fit, diligent, loving, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Disciplined in my own life, with strict values so ideally positioned to lead and inspire your feminine needs. I have a good attitude / character with defined goals for myself so I can help mentor and coach you to set and achieve your goals for growth whether these are physical, emotional, mental or sexual kink.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety and consensual trust built over time.

Lets start a slow burner and explore how you feel about submission/ being a little, your desires, needs for kink, punishment and pain?Lets talk about your goals, training needed to achieve these goals, safe space, etc. Boundaries and respect is crucial especially if you are partnered so we will need to decide together how we make this dynamic work for us. We will need to talk about routines, protocols, structure, expectations, hard and soft limits, kinks and non negotiables, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Are you clingy, needy or bratty no problem I will no make you feel bad about this. Bratty is my Oreo cookie.

But to be clear. Your vanilla side is as important to me as your submissive side. I want to know about your work, hobbies, interests etc. I hate ghosting so you will need to be available to chat during the day and night depending on our boundary limits.

This dynamic with me will suit a woman who is willing to explore bdsm/ submissiveness curiously and who loves to banter and appreciates innuendos and adventure. So sign up to be my co-pilot as it has benefits.