Polite request: if you're the sort of person to exchange a few messages and then disappear without explanation, or the sort of person to tell me that I'm exactly the type of person you're looking for and we should meet and THEN you disappear without explanation, please don't waste either of our time. Also I'm profiecient at detecting lies, catfish or sellers so again, please don't waste my or your time. I will call you out.

For everyone else, I've been single for a while now. Was in a relationship most of my thirties and didn't really make the most of my twenties. And as I get to mid forties I'm regretting not saying "F**k it, what's the worst that could happen?" more.

However I do have a lot to offer in terms of being good company (even though the first paragraph doesn't making it seem that way). I'm told I'm caring, funny, easy to talk to, give good advice etc. Whilst I'm not looking for another relationship, if "the one" came along I wouldn't be opposed to commitment, but at the moment I really miss physical touch, affection and pressure free fun. So I'm looking for friends, with or without benefits, and some excitement in and out of the bedroom.

I'm a very considerate guy, especially in the bedroom. Your pleasure is my number one concern.

My interests:

SFW - Cuddling, aviation, history, true crime, comedy, animals and charity volunteering.

NSFW - Cuddling, erotic massage, tickling, giving multiple orgasms, using toys on you (especially if you have a remote control one we can play with in public) and I'm open minded about other things.

If any of this sounds appealing, I'd love to chat if nothing else and see if we vibe. Please include a photo as mutual attraction is obviously going to be a factor. I'll happily reciprocate but a general description of me is about 5ft 10, blonde hair, blue eyes and bit of a dadbod.