Last time I was able to have little space, I was so excited because I stumbled on how to make myself have a wetting "accident". I was all dressed up and struggling with everything I had to hold it all in, and to my disappointment, I'm pretty good at it lol. Mid struggle, a thought occurred to me, so i took my magic wand and pressed hard against my bladder and turned it on. Let me tell you, it didn't matter how good I am at controlling. Even though I was holding with everything I had, it all came rushing out! I loved that feeling. Just losing control was great! All that said, I am no doctor, I have no idea if this is actually a bad or damaging thing to do, I just know it was so fun and I can't wait to do it again! Tldr: Press a wand hard against your bladder