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i didnt know how to add this but i would prefer female replies only bc theres no way men could accurately answer this question, thanks
please answer the question in the main title or dont comment at all. you can type other stuff but plz dont write a bunch of stuff without even answering my question. i know i cant control people but im just asking politely that you guys please answer the question in the TITLE bc thats the only main thing i really care about. i want to know why its worth it to present as a woman. why? what will i get out of it besides suffering and pain and annoyance and being treated bad? what are advantages to presenting as a woman?
I have little to no desire to present as a woman. there are some aspects about presenting as a woman i like, like i've always loved the idea of being a house wife/stay at home wife. but since that doesnt even happen in the modern usa society anymore i feel like theres no point presenting as a woman. women just have it harder. they are expected to do everything and work ontop of everything else too, and ontop of all of that they are expected to look pretty and be eye candy and if they're not, theyre not treated as nicely/not cared about as much/etc. i know im not a guy/male but i feel like presenting as one would be easier. ive been on and off T. the reason i went off of it twice is bc i know im only doing this because i hate the way women have all these expectations and are treated badly and i see no pros to "being a woman". i feel like women get treated like garbage. people just talk over me, especially men. they dont joke with me the same way they do with men. people treat me like im incapable. if we lived back in the 18 hundreds, id probably want to be a woman because that means i dont have to work and i can be a sahm. but now in modern society i HAVE to work. so why should i even put up with being a woman then if i still have to work? i hate working. i know its posisble to become a sahm nowadays but its just way harder to find and plus im very unattracted to these modern guys, they're all annoying and gross and immature as fuck. i just dont see any pros to being a woman. theres absolutely nothing good about it and i think everyone knows that, they just dont want to admit it. theres nothing good about being a woman, its the sex that gets treated the worst, is expected to look perfect the most, is talked over and taken as a joke the most, is called slurs such as "bitches" and is de-humanized the most. i just honestly dont understand why every girl doesnt want to transition. girls who have NO desire to transition confuse me. why tf would anyone want to "be/present as" a woman? makes no sense to me. especially considering that women also have to work nowadays too. if being a woman meant i didnt have to work and got to do calming hobbies and stay indoors and look like a delicate flower, sure id do it, but women nowadays are expected to work 40-60 hours, do everything on their own, and deal with being treated like shit ontop of it. i could tolerate being treated like shit more and being expected to look like a delicate little princess if i didnt have to work. men tell me to smile. the fuck is there to be smiling about? im not in disney world land where i get to sit on my ass and sing to animals in the forest all day. presenting as a woman honestly doesnt make me happy and i dont understand why it makes anyone else happy. i feel rly happy presenting as a woman due to the way i get treated. its either that or i just isolate myself from everyone so people dont treat me bad
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