I am so sick of this, I am unable to even question or have an issue with a trans person without being told I am a bigot or a transphobe, well I am in love with one, and am in a relationship with another! Dont really get how not just liking every trans person somehow negates all that! It is so frustrating to not even be able to share an opinion or to be called the slurs that I used to be called by people outside of LGBT community! It is getting really really bad, detransitioners are treated like we dont freaking exsist, or worse that somehow we did this to deliberately hurt trans people! LOL someone actually said that to me! WHAT.....no sorry I am not going thru all this BS because of you! LOL and try and get any help, and you are SOL! No one wants to help the detrans, there is just something wrong with us, or we were chicken to not continue or whatever else, I just want things back the way they were, before all this crap happened, before that new stupid flag, or all the BS! I am just so tired of division, our greatest strength used to be our unity, that feels like it has been shattered and it breaks my heart shattered as well! I want to be friends with anyone, and I am open to be friends, why do they hate us so much!