Ok so I have been thinking a lot about the nature of kinks, fetishes, etc. I always hear people say "dont get involved with someone who has a fetish" or something similar. I have always gone with this, but I have kind of been thinking if there might be a bit of wiggle room with it, I mean when does something go from being a preference or just what turns you on to be a kink or a fetish. In some ways I think its a good thing to find people who are truly turned on by aspects of us. I can totally understand how it can be a danger or be a negative thing, and it certainly should not be the basis of any relationship, I just thought I would see what others thought and see if we could have a discussion about it! I really have not decided how to view it as of yet, and really would love to hear other peoples perspective!