Everytime i have posted clips of my more feminine speaking style, I get attacked on here. I have been told these things from people here:

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-please never sing in front of people ever again

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-you sound like a man trying to overcompensate by raising his pitch

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- you sound like an old grandma

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There are other rude things people have said, but those are the things that stuck out to me the most and stayed with me (and low key traumatized me too.)

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But yet when I post my voice on transvoice, everyone is very nice and if they do have criticism, they word it in a neutral/nice way, not in an antogonistic way.

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On this sub, two people have said something rude to me about my voice and when I confronted them, literally both of them said “well if you wanted people to just praise you, you should’ve said that.” (These were two different people who said the same exact passive aggressive dialogue.)

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I actually feel like more people are supportive when I post my natural voice on here rather than my feminine voice. When I post my natural voice, people give sympathetic comments like “this shouldn’t have happened to you.” But yet when I try to talk femininely I get told I sound like a man? How the heck do I supposedly sound more like a woman when talking in my normal T-affected voice rather than a more feminine soft voice? That makes no sense. It’s almost as if people WANT me to talk masculine for some reason- maybe they never want me to improve and want me to continue to be some sort of sob story for them to mock

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And also, many people on here to my man voice say “I can still hear the femininity in your voice. It’s not very masculine. I still hear the normalcy in it. I bet you’d have amazing voice training results”, but then when I post me trying to attempt to talk feminine I get comments like “you sound old, you sound like a man, etc”

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So many of the posts with my feminine voices have tons of deleted comments of troll comments like those.

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But I don’t even know if I should call these people trolls because when I look at their post histories, their post histories all look fine.. up until the moment when they said the comment to me.

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Long story short, I just posted a singing audio a couple days ago, and all the trans people on there had only supportive things to say. But one detrans man (from this sub) FOLLOWED me over to the transvoice sub in order to tell me I sound like a man. And yes, I know he followed me because only minutes prior to that, he had commented on one of my posts from this sub.

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Why the fuck are detrans people from this sub harassing my voice and even going as far to follow me to other subs to belittle me? It makes me start to fear this community a little bit. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I wanna be in the trans community. I don’t. No thanks. But this community (the only place where I feel safe) is starting to scare me from the rudeness I receive. Maybe I should just not be in any community at all and just forget about relating to anybody.

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Also, the vast majority of people who have said rude stuff about my voice have been detrans men. Why? I have no idea. My suspicion was that maybe they’re still bitter and envious of women and want to put real women down because they’re jealous they’ll never be one. That’s just my guess.

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But that’s why I’m putting female replies only, because 99% of interactions I’ve had with detrans men on here have been horrible.