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Being the “safe person” is hard
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First, thanks to everyone on this sub, I’ve just joined but it’s very comforting knowing I’m not alone.

One thing that hit me hardest when my wife said it was that I was the one who she could always cancel on, let down, or just ignore because I’m her safe person. I see now that this is a thing. And I understand.

But f***, it’s lonely and absolutely painful being that person, seeing them show their best side and put the effort in for everyone else, and getting scraps of that MAYBE if you’re lucky.

I feel bad even saying that but I know folk here know what I mean.

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