We dated for almost 2 years and every time he had an episode he took ‪i️t ‬out on the relationship.

I’ve been more than patient with him, supportive, and very active in his mental health trying to be a better partner for him.

Recently I found out he was entertaining someone from his past and I left him shortly after that.

Before we even got to that point he would say things like “I don’t need you” ..... “You don’t have to hear or see from me again I don’t care” ..... “We can go back to being strangers again I don’t care” after my attempts to help him feel better or basically telling him how his actions affect the relationship or my feelings.

So I’m wondering if this is common with depression and what exactly do you think your partner should do in this situation? Because my feelings are deeply hurt right now knowing I did everything I could’ve to help. I feel like he’s guilt tripping me to an extent but too delusional to even realize where he messed up