Many anr communities of the past and present have shown an embodied scarcity and have seen short lived success. We are responsible for that, we have the ability to create a different outcome, and we will.

The beliefs we hold and sentiment we embody influence how our environment responds. If we believe there are no viable partners, such will be true. If we adjust, and step into empowered belief, "I will be successful calling in what I desire", such will become true. It creates the desired results. Being very mindful of ourselves and our language is essential. For example, the statement "I want x," or "I'm trying to find x" embody scarcity and desparation whereas the example above embodies a powerful alignment and magnetism with your desire. Be mindful of fixation on outcome and approaches to your goals.

Be very selective and gentle when reaching out. Quality, not quantity. This community will not see success if every F4M post is met with dozens of low effort, libido loaded replies. A woman that posted in another community mentioned being met with "over 100 direct messages" from men. Many women refuse to post because of this. This may be uncomfortable for many of you, but please dont allow desparation to step in and reach out to just anyone. Without a strong resonance to the original poster, your likeliness of a connection will be low and reduce both your and others ability to make a meaningful connect. Likewise, 30 other men replying to the post that REALLY resonates with you will drown out your reply and probably put an end to her online search. Abundantly, there will be a post that really resonates with you and that is when you should connect. When you find a post that aligns strongly, please, write more about yourself and put the effort in. This will ensure female members are respected, honored, and feel safety making a post here.

Balanced membership of females and males, and refined connection attempts will allow this community to flourish and excel, while keeping everyone satisfied.