Basically, when people try to flirt with me or even talk dirty, none of it sounds fun and it’s all fairly neutral to me. I can fake it but I’m definitely just not interested. Thinking about certain sexual acts doesn’t seem to do anything for me. But reading romance books and watching real couples interact online does turn me on (I’m trying to be pretty vague and somewhat SFW, sorry if that makes this post confusing).

I think this is part of why I feel I must be demi and not simply greyace, because while I’ve never had a relationship, these things make me realize I really just crave touch from someone I trust so completely and fully.

I’m certain I’m aegosexual due to the above feelings about books and films and also cupio, as I want a romantic and sexual relationship.