I’m (25f) demisexual and happily married to my best friend (25m), we recently moved to italy and we’re starting our life here. We’ve been working in a restaurant, and we’re making friends with our coworkers, which is nice, because we don’t know anyone in Italy, and we’re both very social so we need friends. But i started to feel attracted to one of our coworkers thats becoming our friend. It was nothing at first, but as we started to be closer, and talked about deep stuff and, well, developed the damn emotional connection, OF COURSE my demi-ass would start to feel things! I was so confused because i love my husband, but then i remembered reading about demisexuals not knowing how to deal with attraction once it shows (and the curse to always have a crush on friends). Well, i just dont know, im literally dreaming about him, when i see him at work my heart races, and its not that i want to have sex with him, i just wand to kiss (badly), and hug, get to know him better and tell him pretty things, which make me feel worse because its like a romantic thing… on top of that, me and my husband decided recently to have an open marriage (but nothing never happened yet), and it intensifies the feelings because it makes me feel like im not cheating if i feel this way, but he have a girlfriend who’s also becoming our friend, so… anyway, probably someone who’s not demi would just think “damn he’s hot”, but i… i just feel like a teenager 😖