[Male] so I'm not sure if I'm Demi or it's something else. I have no problem being sexualy attracted on the surface, but I can't really get intimate until I'm very close to someone emotionally. This causes problems especially trying to find a not so serious relationship. Basically, I think there hot, but can't really move forward unless we start out becoming friends, and very slowly move up to more. Then once we are close I get bonded making any attempt at a casual encounter impossible and painful.

So for anything like that it would end up having to be a long-term best friends with benefits situation for it to work, but creating that seems to be impossible.