Hey everyone, posting on here as I want to make a journal of my efforts to beat (no pun intended) this thing. Like many of you, I have delayed ejaculation since I became sexually active at 18.

I could last for hours, I thought that I was what every girl wanted and what every guy wanted to be but soon realised that there was something missing, like watching everyone at the party having fun whilst you’re alone in the corner.

It took a hold of my self-esteem and I had a “dark” year of sleeping around with many women believing that it wasn’t “my” problem but maybe “if I found the right woman it would just go away”… but it didn’t…

Until I fast forward to this year and I have a heart to heart with my current sexual partner who explains that she understands and that this happened with her previous partner and she has been trying to understand why it happens.

I just turned 29 and this is the first time that I have met someone so understanding of my condition so I’ve set a resolution to better understand this by this time next year.

I’ll be posting my experience so far and my progress throughout the year in other posts so watch this space I guess.