My mother passed away two days ago in her sleep. My siblings and father are so lost, I'm the oldest and am trying to shoulder as much as I can.

She used to handle everything, banking, bills, shopping, ect. I'm trying to help my father as much as I can with going through all her paper work and organising him having to take control of everything. As well as trying to organise the funeral and talk to the coroners court, plus talking to most of the family when they call. But I am so so lost myself, pretending to know what to do for my dads sake.

I'm just so confused about what I should be doing, just wish there was a step by step checklist to work through everything that needs to be done.

So my question is, what do I do?