i’ve posted here before but it’s been a while. I think the last time I posted is when my wife finally made me not want her because of one too many rejections and her telling me to get over it. In the last couple months or so my wife has actually been making more of an effort to be intimate but now I can’t get into it with her because that part of my relationship with her has been completely shut off. Being hurt and rejected so many times has made me have it in my head that my wife and I are not sexual partners. I hate that I feel that way especially because she’s finally trying but it’s just not there and after years of her not wanting me, now I don’t want her and that’s not how I want to feel.