TL/DR: Looking for a confident, caring, intelligent, and independent man with a desire to take the lead and start a monogamous D/s relationship. Please read the whole post. If my post is still up, then I am still looking.

Me: I am a nerdy, compassionate, honest, self-aware, curious, service-oriented kind of lady. Shy and reserved at first, but actually sassy, witty, and dirty as you get to know me. I am 5’3.5”, hourglass figure, presently also curvy (though I’m active and am working on a consistent fitness regimen), brunette, green/blue eyes, glasses, and fair skinned. I have a couple tattoos with plans for more, and I’m DDF. I’m vegan but don’t expect anyone else to be…though I don’t enjoy having carcasses around me. My friends and I joke that there’s only one kind of meat I’m tempted by 😏 I am educated with both a B.A. and an M.S. I’m an introvert, meaning I recharge away from people…but my top two love languages are Quality Time and Physical Touch…so if I’m having a good time with people I enjoy, I have a hard time leaving. I am a loving and affectionate Partner, and can be just as happy sitting in the same room doing separate activities as I am diving into a project or deep conversation with you. I’m undecided about having kids, but heavily leaning towards NOT having them. If I were ever to change that leaning, I’m far more likely to adopt than give birth. I am financially stable and debt free.

I enjoy a wide variety of hobbies and interests such as reading, writing, shows/movies, theatre, axe throwing, bowling, stargazing, camping, hanging out with trees, going to museums, astrology, crystals, witchy stuff, board games, D&D, learning in general but especially history and languages…the list goes on and on! I am absolutely obsessed with mountains and forests and would love to relocate to the PNW or the UK at some point.

D/s: I have essentially no experience in kink. I am of the belief that being in a steady, monogamous relationship with someone who is experienced will allow me to feel safe enough to let go of control, be vulnerable to exploring and growing, and give myself over to shame-free pleasure.

Since I make decisions and am in charge of people all day long at my job and in my life as a single woman, the idea of someone else making the decisions and guiding me is incredibly appealing. I like to be good at whatever task I’m attempting…so I will crave your praise and do my best to please you. I also want to be ravaged, sated, and adored. I’m curious about exploring light impact play and bondage, anal, and subtle sub-collaring, to name a few things. I absolutely love having my hair pulled near the root and biting while making out…other biting is tbd. My Hard limits are the heavy forms of Sadism & Masochism as well as Age Play/Regression, Animals, Anything Illegal, Blood, Body Mods, Diapers, Permanent Marks, Pet Play, Scat, Puke & Urine. There may be more but I don’t know what I don’t know 🤷‍♀️

You: You are a lover. A strong, capable, assertive, intelligent, and independent man who knows what he wants and one who can, and does, communicate it effectively. You are looking for a woman to please you just as much as you please her. You want to dominate her in the bedroom, but have a partner in life. You are single, emotionally available, health conscious, active, fun, and you prioritize your mental health. I would love for you to be able to lift me and pin me against a wall, for example. You are also DDF. Vasectomy is preferred, but not a deal breaker. Traits I value in a Partner are honesty, integrity, kindness, empathy, emotional intelligence, humor, and possessiveness (to an extent). Even if things start out predominantly online, you would preferably be open to discussing how we can spend time together in person, up to and including relocation for one or both of us.

You understand that although the sexual relationship is important, it isn’t the entire relationship. Ideally we’ll build a foundation of trust, commitment, friendship, open communication, and emotional connection that will allow us both to feel respected, cherished, and seen.

If You Made It This Far: If this post has piqued your interest, please reach out! I have a picture on my profile but will happily exchange more SFW pics with you if we seem to be getting on. If you’d like to include your favorite Lord of the Rings character, I would absolutely love that. And yes. There is a wrong answer 😈