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About me: I’m Bee (not my real name, will share once we talk more), 30F, bisexual, from SE Asia. 4’11”/150cm, somewhat curvy, got some tattoos.
Little/middle/sub with a bit of a bratty/playful side, but mostly a good girl (love praises) and I have some switch tendencies but have little experience with it. Open to experience switching more but have lots to learn and I find myself being into loving dominance in general.
I’m a video game and board game kind of nerdy. I’m into stationeries like planners, journals, memory keeping, stickers and pens. I enjoy yoga. I love traveling, done it a few solo or with friends but still lots to see in this world! I like outdoor activities like hiking, snorkeling or freediving, but tbh I don’t do it frequently but I try to when I’m traveling in a new place. I like staying in just as much as I like traveling and seeing the world. I’m an introvert and socializing drains me but I love being around people I love and care about and can still be outgoing but I have to be in the right mindset for it. I can enjoy doing things by myself and big me rely on herself a lot, which is why it’d be lovely to find someone who’ll be there, who I can safely and reliably lean on in life.
As a romantic partner, I’ve learned that I am capable of giving a lot to my partner to a fault. I receive and naturally give love through physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation.
What I’m looking for: I want someone who’ll hopefully be my forever partner. I want to meet/talk with someone genuine and slowly get to know each other for a long term and monogamous romantic relationship with ideally a 24/7 DDlg dynamic (as much as daily life allows it). Preferably close to my age and in or close to Asia so time difference is not too difficult. But I’m open to bigger time difference if we can make time for it. Online starting is okay, but I would want to eventually meet and visit each other, and then permanently be together when it gets to that point. I want someone I can also build a friendship and share similar interests with. Someone who will make me feel safe before any of the sexual stuff, I enjoy it, I just need security and consistency from someone first especially online. I want someone physically and verbally affectionate, gentle, soft, patient, also can be clingy, consistent, has time and energy for a relationship especially if long distance, who naturally wants to spend time with their partner on their free time unless of course there are plans with family or friends, communicative, silly/playful, physically active or somewhat active, who’s confident enough and comfortable in themself, also nerdy/geeky, into video games and board games and their other hobbies, who wants or is comfortable being on call/video call and sharing pictures of daily life and selfies frequently.
Little/middle me seeks for someone that can be a Cg to me ideally 24/7. I’m open to switching to here and there, but I’m sub leaning. I want to be fed, bathed, groomed, coddled, etc. I’d want rules, structure and rewards. I’d like if my d-type will pick colors for me when I’m playing with my planners/journals, my clothes, my nail polish color. Help me with decisions in some things. While I wanna be taken care of, I’m also a bit of a service sub so I can enjoy also cooking for them and helping around the house and generally taking care of them in my own little ways. I know online there’s only much we can do, so hopefully we can make something work. I would love to play games together, watch shows together, talk a lot over the phone or video call as much as possible.
As for other sexual kinks, here are some I like giving and/or receiving, and we can discuss more as we talk more. But I would not do any sexual play early. - Praises - Affectionate domination - Sleep Sex - Free use - Nipple Play - Impact Play - Teasing - Bondage/Restraints/Shibari - Some humiliation and degradation - Edging/orgasm control - Anal play
Have not done but curious about giving these. Not a deal breaker but something fun to experience eventually I think: - Strap on/Pegging - Prostate milking
Hard limits: Scat, blood, needles, knife, rape roleplay, permanent marks/scars
Phew that’s a long one but if you read it all up to here and wanna introduce yourself, please send me a message with your fave thing in a Cgl relationship.
Thank you and talk soon 💜🎀 -Bee
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