Greetings,

About me:

I'm a former software engineer living alone somewhere in the south, returning to university either for medicine or research. I've had previous experience in d/s (year long IRL relationship). I'm 5'9, lean to average build, and been told I'm handsome and have a nice smile.

I love to learn, and were I rich, I'd just stay in school and get 5 PhDs. Alas I make due with reading a wide variety of literature, particularly philosophy, history, religion, poetry, science fiction and classic literature.

I highly value health and fitness. I exercise and meditate regularly. I don't smoke, vape, drink, or eat much junk food. I'm also into martial arts and hope to get back into grappling. In general I'm big on self improvement and value spiritual and ethical growth.

I would say I'm equal parts countryside and metropolitan. Cities tend to have more of what I'm interested in, but a part of me does hope to have the finances to create my own homestead with a nice view one day (far away given this economy).

Activities I'll say yes to: partner dancing(swing and Argentine tango), going to museums, orchestra, theater, and opera, watching films and binging shows, hiking, getting smacked by waves on the beach, trying new food, road trips to see interesting art or geography, tabletop/game board nights, and the occasional anime and video game.

In general I'm always happy to go out, but I don't get restless staying at home for days either.

Ideally you: Are local or willing to relocate within 6 months at the most. Are 33 or younger. Lean to average build. Like short beards. Love to cook. Also value health, fitness and growth. Don't smoke cigarettes and don't drink alcohol or smoke weed (or only occasionally partake). Want someone who will lead, protect, and guide you. Like the idea of being someone's treasured property and perhaps even signing a contract. Want either no say in making decisions or want your input seriously considered but trust your partner to decide what's truly in your best interests (assuming the rapport has been built ofc) . Crave routine and want to please. Want to be disciplined when you stray from your goals or don't follow the agreed upon rules. Want to be molded according to your partner's tastes, while also trusting your owner will ensure you grow and enrich yourself as a person.

Your kinks include some or all of the following: d/s, dd/lg (w/o regression or only mildly so), degradation, objectification, cnc, being choked, free use, sleep play, hypnosis, bimbofication, domestic discipline (esp. spanking), 1950s style gender roles. Your dream is this would lead to a 24/7 TPE as much as possible and within reason.

Your limits include: anything illegal or that would cause permanent damage, extreme pain, feces, animals, and children.

As far as chemistry outside of d/s - great conversations are my primary criteria. Someone at the very least who's honest, thinks my jokes are funny, and enjoys listening to me talk about something I read or watched. To me it's not as important sharing religious or political views so long as you're open to respectful debate and dialogue. But given my personality, it's more debates than dialogue lol. As for kids, you're open to them but wouldn't want them anytime soon.

Open to sharing pics once introductions have been made. I will keep this post up until I find my match.