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I'm looking for my Forever Princess, my best friend, my person to come home to and to grow with.
Sexual chemistry is an important aspect of a successful relationship, so it can be helpful to start with that aspect, and then talk about everything else, as opposed to leaving this for last. Hence why I am here.
In the end, what I am primarily looking for is a long-term, forever relationship, with a partner that I trust and love, as they do as well. A relationship that happens to have D/s aspects. I want a partnership and relationship that is going to last.
I hesitate to talk about kinks, because I feel that each couple develops their own unique identity, but I'll provide some things I generally enjoy, so we know if we're in the same ballpark. I'm a big fan of collaring my special person, and having collars for private and public use. I also enjoy some light degradation/name-calling, but paired with praise as well. I'm a big fan of cute little skirts and dresses, and helping my princess pick out her outfits sometimes, doing online shopping together to find new things to wear. I have enjoyed the title "Daddy", because it makes my heart melt coming from my Princess. Whispering things we'll do once we get home, when we're out and about. There's also a bunch of other things I enjoy as well, but we can discuss together in more detail.
These things are a bit more than "just in the bedroom", but definitely not in the territory of "total power exchange" or 24/7. More like a personality of the relationship. I'm certainly not looking for any sort of 24/7 dynamic - I want most of our interactions to be a "normal" relationship (talking about our next vacation, or how our days went, or planning dinner/picking out a movie). And as I said, each couple is unique, and other things get added or subtracted as appropriate. I enjoy trying new things that we together come up with, there's nothing more exciting than my partner happily skipping over to me, sitting in my lap, wrapping their arms around my neck, and saying, "Hey! I was thinking...what do you think about trying..."
Some things I do not enjoy? I am not really interested in Age Regression or CGL, or any of the things that can sometimes come with that. I also do not enjoy all the standard stuff that is always listed here.
Mutual physical attraction is important. We should strive to trade pictures as soon as we think it's appropriate. I'm a 37 year old Caucasian male, 6'2, 210 pounds, somewhere in the fit/average category, and I'm a very successful working professional and home-owner. I don't have a hard-and-fast preference for my partner, but I generally find more attraction towards people on the slim/fit/average part of the spectrum with longer hair, and ambitious in terms of trying to grow their life and career (something I'm very interesting in helping with).
Having common interests is also really important, I want to share these things with my Princess. We should discuss this in more detail in private, but I'll give some general areas of interest: MUST LOVE DOGS, sci-fi/fantasy, board/video games, lots of tv shows/movies, restaurants/wine/local events, and lots of cuddling.
I'm not looking for something long-distance. I'm looking for someone where we can spend a lot of time together early on, getting to know each other, seeing if we have compatibility.
I am looking for my perfect, forever, nerdy, adorable...Princess and Partner.
If you've read all that, and find yourself thinking that this may be what you are looking for as well, then send me a message and let's have a conversation.
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