Hi, I'm 5'10, 170lbs. Dark Hair (short hair) some Grey. Dark Goatee [a lot more Grey in the facial hair]. I'm not married (divorced in 2014), I don't have kids, I've had a vasectomy.

Here's my Ideal situation:
I meet a very "amorous" but monogamous woman between the age of 25[*] and 35 who likes to get together 1-3 times a week for Cuddling and watching Movies/TV shows & listening to music together.
I also enjoy night drives (to nowhere in particular), dining out, seeing movies on the bigscreen, and the occasional Live Musical event.

[Video games are also on the table... but I'm not a heavy gamer... so if "Gamer Guy" is your "swipe left" redflag, please reconsider... I have all the necessary hardware for the purpose of playing games, but I mainly keep it around for when my 12yo nephew comes to visit. I keep video games around for the same reason I have Board games, DVDs/Streaming, and a Record collection. It's just one more tool in my arsenal for socializing].

Here's a small sampling of my tastes:

Music:
Aphex Twin, Depeche Mode, µ-ziq, The Human League, Yaz, Brian Wilson (Beach Boys), Earth Wind Fire, ELO, Nine Inch Nails, The Pharcyde, Souls of Mischief, Donny Benet, Home, Dick Dale, Man or Astro-man, Terminal 11, Efterklang, MxPx, The Dead Kennedys

Movies: Everything Everywhere all at Once, You me and Everyone we Know, Eternal Sunshine, Being John Malkovich, 13th Floor, They Live, Back to the Future II, Thor Ragnarok, Guardians of the Galaxy, The Big Lebowski, Return of the Jedi, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Enthiran, A.I. , Beneath the Valley of the Ultra Vixens, Everything is Terrible II, The Music Man, Grease, Goonies, The Princess Bride, Total Recall, Robocop, Kindergarten Cop, Problem Child.

TV:
I think you should leave, The Mandalorian, Better Call Saul, Alf, 30 Rock, News Radio, Animaniacs, Fringe, X-Files, Better off Ted, Columbo, Æon Flux, Star Trek TNG, What we do in the Shadows, IT Crowd

Food: Sushi, Pizza, Burgers, Thai [Panag Curry], Indian [Chicken Tiki Masala]

Dislikes:
Bigotry, Sports, Nazi's, Self Help Gurus, Pearl Clutching, Careless and/or Aggressive Drivers

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Peace

^[*] I know that seems like an odd age range for someone in their 40s, but I dated a lot of women that were older than me in my 20s and 30s, and it was a really bad time. [Literally women with little more than a high-school education treating me like I'm inferior just because they've been on the planet a couple more years than me. I'm not about that. My last longterm relationship was with someone 9 years younger than me, and It was the best relationship I've had so far... so I've decided 25 is the absolute lowest age I'd be comfortable with, and 35 is the soft limit on the oldest. It was nice to be able to be able to share Music/TV/Movies from my Teen & Childhood years, with someone that maybe wasn't exposed to that media because it wasn't part of their childhood].

To be fair, I'm not actually looking for "Littlespace" Role play a.k.a. I'm not looking for someone that dresses like a child or teen. I'm not looking to play dollhouse, or oversee the use of coloring books etc... [I'll totally watch Animaniacs with you though].
What I'm really looking for is more of an age-gap, and a loving, and somewhat emotionally needy person.

I was dumped in June 2022, and the woman I had been dating had just gone back to college following a divorce from an abusive man. She also had a father that had basically written her off early in her childhood because she was born out of wedlock to his mistress. So, it really seemed like what she was gravitating towards was a kind, patient, and gentle older man to comfort her both physically and emotionally while she was healing from her divorce, and dealing with a very stressful regiment of College STEM Classes.
Not to toot my own horn, but I was exactly what she needed [and she said this too me regularly]. As graduation approaches and her emotional scar have been healed... she needed me less and less, and dumped me.

I'm basically looking to repeat this dynamic again. Because it worked out really well for 2 years, and even if my next partner outgrows me after a year or two, it was ultimately worth the sadness of breakup for the two years I got to spend with her, and I hope that is the case in my future relationship [tbh I hope the next one lasts a lifetime, even though I'm not looking for marriage, kids, or co-habitation].