Currently in Louisiana, planning to move back to SoCal looking for something online that can progress to irl and you relocating :)

Hello 👋

I am looking for someone serious. Someone who is desperate for a change of scenery. I am too old for online rps. I have traveled the world and had a long marriage that didn't last. I'm looking for a true companion. Someone that needs guidance maybe or a firm hand. I'm open to all sorts so just take the plunge and shoot your shot. Send me selfies and a small introduction. Let's chat and get to know each other. See if we're compatible and take the next step to relocate to me once we're ready :) I don't care if you pursue a career, a passionate hobbies, school or want to be a stay at home homemaker/gamer weeb. As long as you're sweet and we can keep each other company is good for me. I would prefer someone that wants more of a minimalist or introverted life. I am pretty frugal and a homebody myself.

I'm 6'1" 220 white, blue eyes, dirty blond/brown hair with hints of grey. I have no tattoos or piercings. I'm fit but not cut. I have a bit of chub. I'm not well educated but I am intelligent. I have an associates degree and I'm currently in the military. I enjoy all sorts of good entertainment and escapism as most do in their leisure time. I was a comic book/manga nerd before it became mainstream with the popularity of the MCU and anime. I enjoy video games, mostly solo rpg/adventure games however COVID got me into online games like Madden and COD. I'm currently playing FFXIV again. I'm a bit of a homebody. I like to go out every now and then but not every weekend. I enjoy museums and theme parks but I hate crowds and long lines. I live alone currently with my cat. I am in the southeastern USA. I have children in a different location I hope to move closer soon but I must do as Uncle Sam allows. And if you got kids that's okay too, though your circumstances on how that came about might dissuade me from getting together based on past experiences.

I am attractive, charming, witty and funny. I have trouble dating because I am an introvert and also super respectful. I do not approach women in public because I assume they wouldn't want to be bothered in their personal time. I do not approach or flirt with women in the workplace because it's unprofessional. So I use dating apps. However the people on dating apps are all just looking for sex, sex workers or they're just not my type. Maybe I'm picky. I am quite comfortable in my solitude however if the right person appears I would embrace it.

I am quite fun and kinky. Sexually my only limits are scat, diapers and cutting or perm damage as far as I'm aware. I enjoy aspects of ropeplay, CNC, Somno and public play if you're into that. I can also be vanilla if those are too extreme for you, mostly demi looking for a real connection. I don't mind littles as long as they're not littles in public or in front of company. I'm pretty laid back and kinky but wouldn't want my personal life or fetishes out in the open like that.

I am a top, I consider myself straight because I've only been with cis women but I have seen trans/nb people I find cute before so I'm open minded. I am intrigued by feminization and I was always attracted to tomboys and androgyny growing up. That being said I'm not into masc, hairy or big/babe/"curvy" people, healthy height weight proportions please. If you're a lil chunky and working on it then that's okay. If you got stretch marks that's okay too. So if you're a big old hairy dude or a cutie looking to take hormones to grow a gnarly beard down the road we won't be compatible. Age doesn't matter to me as long as you're attractive..I gravitate towards younger people because I consider myself to look quite good for my age. But if you also look good for your age even if you're older I'm open to that as well. Anyways hope to hear from you :)