I've had dominant tendencies for as long as I can remember. I don't recall exactly at what point they became such a prevalent factor in past relationships, but the more I've lived with them, the more my belief that this kind of dynamic isn't all about mindless objectification has been reinforced.

Since you're here now too, it's safe to assume that you've also spent too much time in subreddits like these lately, scrolling through countless posts that all look and feel the same, hoping to catch a glimpse of one that leads you to someone that thinks like you do. It's also safe to assume that, whether posting or reaching out, you've experienced a fair amount of unapologetic sexualization as a result. In some cases, without any actual attempts to get to know you beyond the fact that you share a dark side. Maybe it still bothers you, or maybe you've just accepted that's that's how it is.

Regardless, to me, dominance means being the one that can be instinctively turned to in every situation, big or small. Being the leader, and the decision-maker, and allowing the one you care for to turn their brain off when it all gets to be too much. Being the catalyst for positive change, self-acceptance, and personal growth. Being a firm hand and a warm heart, and making discipline something to be appreciated. Being a strong example of positive masculinity, and being with clear with intentions, and consistent with actions. Keeping in mind that the end goal should be helping to make my sub the best version of herself possible, not changing her into something I want them to be. This, I believe unquestionably.

However, if the situation calls for it? It also means knowing which buttons to push, when, and how hard. How to bring you to your knees eagerly, and without warning or hesitation, using only the tone of my voice and the words on my tongue. How to make replying "Yes Sir" to something especially filthy feel like the ultimate thrill, with only the praise you'll be shown throughout being a close second. Being someone that, at the end of the day, she knows doesn't see her as a piece of meat , even though she likes to be treated like one sometimes.

But that's waaay down the line. We need to earn each other's respect before we ever get to that point. So, with that being said:

Would you like a new friend? Some attention? Affection? A ton of praise? Words of affirmation? Somebody to lean on? A shoulder to cry on? Someone to laugh with? To be good for? To try for? To make proud? To listen to? How about a sense of structure? Of safety? Of security? Of stability? Rules to follow? Guidelines to live by? Hell, how about just pet names, a little light flirting, and good vibes to give you butterflies and help get you through the night while we get to know each other? I'm your guy.

I'm not looking to be in a relationship, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss sharing something deeper with someone. That, and I have nobody to boss around lately, so leave me a message if you're interested.

Later 👋🏻