Ever wanted to feel “yourself” and be adored for it? Ever wanted a hand to hold for when the noise of the world gets too overwhelming? Ever wanted to chase your desires and cravings then be met with praise and support? Perhaps to turn your mind off then award trust and control to someone you can barely resist?

Yes? Well then please keep reading.

Hi there. I'm a fantasy romance reading, D&D playing, Plant addicted, videogame enjoying, gym loving white guy from The Netherlands. I've been told I'm far too attractive to be a bookworm. I've got chestnut brown hair, silver blue eyes, athletic build and I'm stupid strong for my size. You know I'm standing stern at 6’0” (1.84m) so I'm barely visible amongst the giants we call the Dutch. No I didn't drink the milk.

I'm probably going to be an abnormality for you. No, I'm not interested in having a one night finale where we enjoy shallow but extremely kinky and connection-less sex. It bores me, I crave a bond, a trust and a surrender so sweet and innocent that I'd rip the moon from the sky if it meant to keep you safe and happy. I want you to know my weaknesses, know what makes my pulse race and also… simply how to make me look at you with jelly heart shape eyes and a stomach full of butterflies.

And no. I don't intend to show you my one headed Hydra either. Fear not the intrusive wrinkled penis pictures will be a fallacy in our conversations.

Good. You're smiling. Or at least there's a smirk. See… something different for a change. Not so bad huh?

I'm a Pleasure Dom / Soft Dom. I have 8 years experience. I'm fully capable of being the fictional Dom you've dreamt of. I am entirely open to creating a unique dynamic, in which rules and guidelines are set in place to provide structure and clear communication. Rules should, in turn, care for and nurture the areas requiring improvement in a submissive's life. Example: Exercise, career, emotional stability, self care, sexual satisfaction, etc. Usually these rules can prove to be satisfying for me as well. Double win.

Yes. By now you're going “I'm sceptical”, I entirely understand this response and it's perfectly normal. Deceit and deception find common place on the Internet, especially with people's trust and faith.

Let me repeat. I'm not here for nudes or sexting, those are gifts and privileges awarded from a submissive to her dominant. I'll earn that, thank you. Just like everything else worth holding dear and near. Just like a Dominant title. That too, is earned.

Regarding kinks, I'm fairly open and experienced so I doubt you could scare me off with your desires. So ask me. Let it be a topic of discussion (more details below). Please note I'm extremely sexual and my love language is Physical Touch.

Now. Less about me. More about you.

I want to be blunt and honest here as to prevent giving someone false hope or causing confusion of any sort.

I crave a partner. A submissive. I don't care too much for how you want to label it as it would be me and you versus the world. I want someone to spend time with, to spoil and to leave dripping. To cuddle, to praise and to slowly corrupt into the desperately needy submissive I dream to have by my side.

I am drawn to the following aesthetics like a moth to a flame. Pink Princess Gothic Princess (big tiddies are preferred) Alternative Babygirl Gamer girl Demon girl

If you fall under any one of the above, you're starting with bonus points. For extra bonus points add “sweet cream” to your message so I know you can read instructions.

Experience isn't required. I am very happy taking the hand of a submissive and helping them explore and slowly training them. On the otherhand, if you're experienced, I'm sure there are loads of fun things we can discuss and try. My main kinks: Breeding, DDLG, Squirting, Orgasm Denial/Control, Petplay, Soft S/M play, Free use, Impact play. choking and Hucow.

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Lastly, please have a ludacrisly wild and chaotic sexdrive. I can be intimate for hours, so I'd like someone to be able to keep up with me.

Ideally be from Europe. Even better if you're from The Netherlands. I want to start off online but eventually see each other frequently and if you steal my heart, then imma keep you in my house haha.

Now… how to respond to this to make sure I see it?

Simple. Add the following to your message:

Name: (Doesn't need to be your real one) Location: Age: Orientation:

Weirdest fact about you:

Favourite book and why:

Cutest date idea for us:

If you had to gift me something without buying a gift. What would it be?

If you had to tease (Sexually) me in public what would you do? What changes between that and when we're at home?

To round if off. Add a picture of yourself (SFW please, no trying to get extra points)

Note I'm entirely up to video call and confirm I'm real and serious. Warning once we feel comfortable sending pictures you're getting random pictures from me… all day.

If you made it this far, and you are interested. I await your message … with as much patience as I can muster. If all else fails, I've got spicy book recommendations for you.