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Hi everyone, I'm an experienced DD looking for a Little girl that would be interested in being fostered for a while.
In the interests of openness and honesty, I'll lead with my current relationship situation as is may be a red flag for a lot of people: I am currently going through divorce proceedings to end a 14 year (non-DDLG) marriage. I''ve been involved in DDLG for over 20 years, but my things ended with my long Little about 18 months ago. (No cheating involved - My ex-wife knew about my relationship with her, accepted it and regularly invited her to our house). As a result, I am slowly adjusting to single life again and realising that I am missing the deep friendship and emotional connection that comes with DDLG relationships. Being a Daddy - nurturing, cherishing, guiding and protecting a Little - is such a fundamental part of who I am that I feel lost and adrift without it in my life. I'm looking for a foster-type situation because I know that it will take me time to properly heal from my marriage, and it wouldn't be fair on a Little to rush into a permanent relationship before I am ready.
I'm 45, live in the south of England, work full time in the training sector (So most of our conversations would have to be during UK evenings/weekends) and am financially stable. I definitely fall into the nerdy category of hobbies and interests - D&D, board games, occasional video games but also enjoy outdoor stuff like hiking and camping. Recently I've been trying to learn to draw as well. I'm 5'11, in reasonable shape, although with a bit of a 'Dad bod' these days, drink socially, don't smoke or do drugs.
I'm looking for a relationship where I can offer support, help, encouragement and advise to my Little. I want to cheer you up when you have had a bad day, celebrate with you when life is good and help you find your inner strength and confidence when you doubt yourself. I also want a Little who takes an interest in me, not just what I can offer you.
I want to hear about your stuffies, see pictures you draw, have movie nights together, read you bedtime stories and talk you to sleep. I expect the relationship would start with just text messages, but hopefully progress to photo sharing, voice calls and video calls as we get to know each other more. Depending on geography, real life meets might be possible further down the line. It would be nice if you were open to the possibility of a sexual side to the relationship when we both felt comfortable with that, but I would be happy with a non-sexual fostering.
Obviously you need to be 18 but I would prefer a Little closer to my age. I don't mind what your relationship situation is, as long as you have time and energy to focus on us, and aren't cheating on someone else. Personality, shared interests and good communication are far more important to me than physically appearance. Please be reasonably financially secure - I enjoy treating my Little to small gifts and treats, but I am not looking for a sugar-type relationship, I have a lot of of experience, professionally and personally, in supporting people with poor mental health, but with everything else I have going on in my life at the moment, I would prefer a Little who is in a safe place mentally. Right now, I'm afraid I don't have the strength to support someone who needs help with SH or su***ial thoughts.
As you are looking on a fostering sub, I assume you are not looking for a 'forever Daddy' at this moment and I'm not really looking for something permanent either. I would be open to the possibility though if the connection is right.
If you are still reading, thank you 😂 If you think that we could be right for each other at this moment in time, drop me a message 😊
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