This is sort of a meta question I guess.

But I'm just sort of curious.

My girlfriend and I definitely have a DDlg dynamic. She loves calling me Daddy, she uses the term more often than my name by a pretty big factor and our relationship is definitely on the D/s end of things.

I'm also quite a bit older than her and she looks younger than she is so we visibly and life experience wise fit the dynamic as well.

I also take a provider and mentor role in her life which I enjoy immensely.

And yes, all of this feeds into our sex life.

But after browsing this sub a bit I'm definitely noticing that we're in some ways on the tamer end of things and I guess less "performative".

She doesn't use a pacifier, she has never worn diapers and while she does often dress very youthful she doesn't overtly play into the "little" sort of look for the most part.

She has moods like any person does but I've never noticed one that fully correlates to "littlespace".

I know we're all on a spectrum in most things in life but it just got me thinking.

I guess I'm kind of curious how many other couples are in that same sort of segment of practice as us where it's definitely there in our lives but it's not a complete way of life.