I just want to leave this for anyone passing through.

If you’re new to the DD/lg dynamic, please don’t be afraid of it. It’s not gross to enjoy it, it’s not childish to want to explore it. It’s certainly not incestuous as some would have you believe.

And the worst possible thing you can do if you’re curious about it is to run from it, to not ask the big questions, to not ask for help.

Yeah, some people aren’t going to understand your tastes. Some may label you a ‘freak’ in their eyes. To them, that’s probably true. But don’t let that weigh you down. Because you can’t help who you are.

Dominant or submissive, Daddy or baby girl, you can probably trace your interest in this dynamic back through the years. You can probably identify why it makes you happy. And In that case, if it makes you happy, don’t let others affect how you live.

Personally, I wrestle with my Daddy side. I sometimes hate that I care so deeply, think so deeply. I hate that I see a person have a bad day and want to talk to them about it, because some have expressed the fact that I’m strange. And it’s kind of inbuilt to think that way now.

But I go on in the end. I sit up late watching Voltron, I counsel my closest friends or those that just need help shifting the weight of their life. I welcome any opportunity to nurture or guide or instruct because I’m not sure if I could stop something that means so much to me.

To be a Daddy means to care, to love, to protect. It’s more than sexual activity, more than putting cute panties on her, it’s the little things. Tucking her into bed, reading to her, seeing her eyes light up in a smile when she feels fulfilled in her own role. It’s about providing security.

So if this is you, if this is how you feel and why you’re here on this subreddit, don’t waste any more time running from what’s important to you.

Never forget you’re a beautiful person and are on the verge of something profoundly beautiful.