So I’ve brought it up to partners in the past but it’s never really amounted to anything, including a five year relationship.

The man I’m in a relationship with now is wonderful. I mean truly makes me feel so safe and cared for. We’ve had an insanely brief convo when he called himself Daddy during sex and I mentioned it’s more than just a title to me, but didn’t really elaborate and said I’d mention it again. We’re coming up on 8 months of knowing each other and about two of seeing each other, almost a month of being official. I really would like to bring it up and see how he feels about ddlg as an addition to our relationship, which is stellar as is.

I wouldn’t be with him if he didn’t make me feel how a Daddy should anyways, so I’m not really worried about him not taking on the role, per se. I just don’t know how to bring it up to someone who says they’re vanilla (although that’s another story because as someone with 8 years experience in kink and active in my local scene, he’s def not vanilla, but it’s not my place to tell him that at all lol)

Anyways! Advice or success stories of telling your partner or just kinda at what point you brought it up if it wasn’t something you were both knowing and upfront about being into when you met would be appreciated!

TIA 🫶🏻