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Heya! I'm Val, 29 years old, genderfluid, and from Germany. I'm looking for a somewhat unusual kind of relationship.
I really like the idea of someone subtly infantilizing me. Not an overt, obvious power dynamic where they're clearly the adult and I'm clearly the baby, and more... well, I guess I want them to act like they're humoring me. Like, they're talking to me mostly like I'm an adult, but in the back of their mind, they're just indulging in me "pretending" to be a "grown up"
It's a bit hard to put into words, really. I guess some things you could do is praising me for doing basic things, questioning that I did things that would be too grown up (or downplaying them), avoiding "inappropriate" topics like sex, or at least using childish words for it, occasionally reminding me to go potty, asking if I need a change, encouraging me to wear a diaper to bed "just in case", etc. All while insisting that, of course you totally see me as a grown up! But again, it should be subtle. I think most of the time, we just talk more or less normally, which will only make it hit harder if you remind me how you really see me.
I'd like you to be around my age, maybe even younger. If you're interested, just DM me, try to start a conversation. If you need an icebreaker, I'm really into video games, tabletop RPGs, board and card games, Pokémon, Godzilla, Ultraman, Kingdom Hearts, Lego, Spider-Man, Castlevania, The Binding of Isaac, Dragon Ball Z, Yu-Gi-Oh, Power Rangers...
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