I'm that classic case who has historically alway been into the guy who is not interested. I've been messed around by so many guys who couldn't be straight with me or who perceived my needs as too much. I used to find guys who liked me cringe. But over the last few months I've done a lot of work on myself and am now seeing someone that I really like, who clearly likes me to.

I hope to pursue a relationship with this person. I'm attracted to them and their personality, and I have not weird anxieties about their interest with me. However, sometimes when we hang out I feel like I've had enough. I spent a lot of time with them today (hike, dinner, drinks - 12hrsish) and he's more talkitive than I am. He wanted to come back to mine, and while the sex was tempting, the bed sharing and social interaction wasn't. Another time we had a lovely date and he wanted to go for a hike the next day. I ended up going and had an ok time but felt like Id spent so long with him that i didnt really care.

I'm not sure of whether or not this is ok? In the past I mainly dated unavailable me and was happy to jump into any activity that meant they we paying me attention, so I'm not sure what to do when I'm happy to say goodbye or if that means something more serious is wrong.